Better Than Sex Caketini is a fun, easy dessert cocktail made with cake vodka, pineapple, coconut, and vanilla flavors inspired by the classic pineapple coconut cake. This delicious, tropical martini recipe is a sweet, creamy drink perfect for parties, holidays, or anytime you want a quick, gourmet cocktail at home.

This Better Than Sex Caketini is one of those over-the-top, super fun dessert cocktails that instantly feels like a celebration in a glass. It’s creamy, fruity, and packed with tropical flavor thanks to pineapple, coconut, and vanilla.

If you’ve ever had the classic Better Than Sex Cake, you already know the flavor combo is amazing. Turning that into a cocktail just seemed like a fun thing to do. You get all those delicious, sweet, creamy notes in a quick and easy dessert drink.
I love making dessert cocktails like this when I want something a little different than the usual wine or mixed drink. It feels special, a little indulgent, and fun.
This one is perfect for parties, girls’ nights, or anytime you want a simple but impressive cocktail that tastes like dessert.
What I Love About This Recipe
- I love how creative and playful this cocktail is. Turning a classic dessert into a drink always feels like a fun twist. Every time I make it, people are curious and excited to try it.
- The flavor combination is so good. The pineapple adds brightness, the coconut makes it creamy, and the vanilla ties everything together. It tastes like a tropical dessert in drink form. Sweet, smooth, and super satisfying.
- This recipe is incredibly quick to make. Everything gets shaken together in minutes. There’s no complicated prep or special technique required. It’s perfect when you want something impressive without the effort.
- I also love how customizable it is. You can adjust the sweetness, switch the coconut component, or dress it up with toppings. It’s easy to make it your own.

Equipment You May Need
- Cocktail Shaker – Used to mix and chill the drink quickly.
- Measuring Cup or Jigger – Helps keep proportions balanced.
- Serving Glass – Martini or cocktail glass works best.
(Full printable recipe card is at bottom of post.)
Better Than Sex Caketini Ingredients
- Cake-Flavored Vodka – Brings sweet, cake-like flavor to the cocktail.
- Pineapple Juice – Adds tropical sweetness and balance.
- Coconut Milk Creamer – Makes the drink creamy and rich.
- French Vanilla Pudding Mix – Adds flavor and slight thickness.
- Whipped Cream – Optional topping for extra indulgence.
- Toasted Coconut – Adds texture and enhances coconut flavor.
How to Make Better Than Sex Caketini
Step One: Mix the Drink
Add the cake vodka, pineapple juice, coconut milk creamer, and French vanilla pudding mix to a cocktail shaker filled with ice. Shake for about 30 seconds until well combined and chilled.
Step Two: Strain and Serve
Strain the mixture into a glass. Top with whipped cream and toasted coconut if desired, then serve immediately.
(Full printable recipe card with full details is at bottom of post.)
Serving Suggestions
- Serve in a chilled martini glass for a classic look.
- Add a toasted coconut rim for extra flavor.
- Pair with light desserts or serve as dessert itself. This drink would go great with these shortbread cookies.
Quick Tips for Best Results
- Shake well so the pudding mix blends smoothly.
- Use cold ingredients for the best texture.
- Adjust the sweetness with more or less pineapple juice.

Better Than Sex Caketini FAQ
How should I store Better Than Sex Caketini?
This drink is best served immediately after making.
Can I freeze Better Than Sex Caketini?
Freezing is not recommended for this cocktail. I can’t guarantee results.
How long will Better Than Sex Caketini last?
It should be enjoyed right away for the best taste and texture.
Substitutions?
You can substitute vanilla for the pudding mix or use regular vodka if needed.
Can I use low-fat ingredients?
You can try lighter coconut milk, but the drink may be less creamy.
What else can I add to this recipe?
Try a splash of rum or a drizzle of caramel for extra flavor.
Can I make this vegan/vegetarian/low carb/gluten-free?
Here are some suggestions, but I can’t guarantee results. Be sure as always to check particular brands and ingredients if you’re following a specific diet or have diet restrictions or allergies.
Vegan – Use dairy-free whipped topping and vegan coconut creamer.
Vegetarian – It’s vegetarian.
Low-Carb – This recipe is not low carb.
Gluten-Free – Check vodka and pudding mix labels.
Hope you enjoy this Better Than Sex Caketini! I love fun dessert cocktails like this Mississippi Mudtini and Peppermint Cookietini, or check out all my dessert cocktail recipes!
Better Than Sex Caketini
Ingredients
- 1/4 cup Pinnacle Cake Flavored Vodka
- 1/4 cup pineapple juice
- 1/4 cup coconut milk creamer
- 1 teaspoon French vanilla pudding mix
- Whipped cream
- Toasted coconut
Instructions
- Mix vodka, pineapple juice, coconut milk creamer, and pudding mix in shaker with ice. Shake for about 30 seconds.
- Strain into glass. Top with whipped cream and toasted coconut as desired.
Notes
- This makes 1 drink, so multiply if you are serving more people.
- Shake well so everything blends smoothly.
- Toast coconut for extra flavor.
- For even more coconut flavor, you can add a little coconut extract.
- Instead of French vanilla pudding mix, you could use vanilla.
- Substitute your favorite coconut milk or cream, for the creamer if desired.
(Nutrition data is provided when available for informational purposes only and calculated using an online nutritional calculator. For the most accurate information please calculate based on specific ingredients and brands you use as well as any changes you made to the recipe. I am not a certified nutritionist or registered dietician and any nutritional information provided should only be used as a general guideline and estimate.)


About Lisa Huff
Lisa Huff is a Cookbook Author, Freelance Recipe Developer, Food Photographer, Blogger/Writer, and award-winning home chef. She loves creating unique recipes from healthy to decadent including cocktails, appetizers, main dishes, dessert recipes and more and has appeared on various shows, publications, and websites.


Over the Top YUM! I had to pin and stumble!
Thanks Aimee!
could I mix this in a blender? I don’t have a shaker
Yes, you could definitely use a blender or mix in a glass with a spoon.
Holy moly, cocktails and dessert all in one. In fact, hold the dinner, just keep these coming!
Do you think that I could use canned coconut milk for this? I have some leftover and this recipe is calling my name!
Hi Sue! I’m sure canned coconut milk would work fine. Hope you enjoy!
Genius! Better than Sex in a glass that includes alcohol! You’re a girl after my own heart :)
I’ll trade you a cocktail for a piece of your cake! :)
This sounds way too good! Can’t wait to try it!
Whow now this looks Orgasmic~I’ll have it daily!
I usually like to cover up the taste of the alcohol with the other ingredients, so can you taste the alcohol in this?
I didn’t think the drink was strong, however, if you’re unsure, just start with half the vodka. You can always add more if you think it’s ok.
Love sll the ingredients – can’t wait to try this!!!!!!
Thanks Pam! Hope you enjoy the drink! Happy Holiays!
oh wow!! this looks so good! Love it!
What a terrific idea!
Thanks Kristi! Hope you enjoy the drink!
Made this tonight — didn’t have toasted coconut to garnish, but this ROCKS! Thanks for sharing this — big hit with me and I’ll be making it for family and friends!
Awwwww, thanks Robert! You made my day!
Ohh, yum. I’m saving this for my birthday in a couple of weeks. It is a big birthday with a 0 at the end! this looks like the perfect thing for drink of the week on my birthday week. Thanks for sharing.
Thanks Toni! Happy Birthday!!! Hope you enjoy the drinks! I have many more on my site that may be perfect for a birthday as well!
I grew up having ‘BTS’ cake. But now that I’m a grown up and stuff, a ‘BTS’ caketini is perfecto!!!!! Yum!
Thanks! Hope you enjoy the drink!
I was planning to make a sex joke, but I know this is a family blog…
Love the So Delicious stuff! Looks like a great drink to celebrate your awesome milestone.